Help to Save My Marriage

Help to Save My Marriage

Most of the issues that come up in our lives causing problems for us is because, we were not taught about them or we didn’t think it really mattered enough to take notes. But now you are asking for help to save my marriage?

A lot of time marriages don’t end up in divorce because of the one time big issue. Usually it’s a combination of a lot of little things that can be easily solved. When you are aware of them.

The problem is most of us don’t sweat the small stuff. Until we have so many that we can’t figure out where the problem is coming from.

They say you can drown in a teaspoon of water. Now, I don’t believe that myself but if you could you would see the teaspoon of water coming and avoid it.

Little problems are similar to that teaspoon of water. By its self it seems harmless but when you have enough of them to fill a five gallon bucket it would be possible to drown in that much. You can watch your mate or even fill that bucket up yourself teaspoon at a time.

They all get mixed together so if you would drown you wouldn’t have a clue which teaspoon of water was the killer. Most people wouldn’t leave their head in a five gallon bucket of water and drown trying to figure it out. They would just walk away.

That’s the way it is in some marriages that need help, somebody walks away. The good news is if, you can fill a bucket with a teaspoon you can empty it with a teaspoon or a cup.

A dirty pair of socks in the middle of the floor is a little thing. It’s like a teaspoon of water in the bucket but when you add a pair shoes, a few of the kids toys, some of last nights dishes on the counter. The list goes on and that’s clutter. Your bucket is filling.

Business’s keep their public spaces clean for a reason. Because, they know clutter is an irritation and when people are even a little bit uncomfortable they tend to argue instead of buy what they’re selling.

Actually a marriage is like a business in a lot of ways. You both had to sell yourselves to the other one. You had to give your future mate respect to build that relationship. Arguing was at a minimum because you were still in the process of making that sale.

So, when you ask for help to save my marriage start treating it more like a business and pay attention to the small things because they really do matter.               Recommended reading

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