Yes, I agree with you. Anything worth having or keeping isn’t always going to be easy especially in a relationship between two different people with different personalities. I call it the attractor factor.

We all know we have some rough edges that need to be honed down a bit and when you choose a mate you know that they aren’t perfect either. However, the grinding usually doesn’t start until after the honeymoon is over.

And that’s when most marriages get into trouble. One partner feels like they own the other one now. They can see the diamond inside that stone and wants to make it shine right NOW.

But, it don’t work like that! The honing has to be done slow with love, patience and respect because, too fast is too painful. And being human we all avoid pain as much as we possibly can.

And that’s one way affairs get started. That dosen’t make it right! But, sometimes it happens. As far as forgiving, It’s a must. You have to and let it go! As far as forgetting, well, that’s about as painfull as having your finger cut off in a saw. No, you won’t ever forget.

But, you can get over it and move on without bringing it up all the time. Talking about a missing finger won’t bring it back so, what’s the point?

Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love coverth all sins. Proverbs 10:12