Advice on Dating a Married Man
So, you want some advice on dating a married man? The fact that you are looking for advice says you are NOT stupid! My question to you is why would you need advice on dating a married man?
I was always taught that there is no such thing as a dumb question. If you want to learn you have to ask questions to people that know the answers. If you’re seeking advice are you willing to take it? Or is your mind already made up?
It’s like someone going to a doctor for back pain and going through all the exams and having the x-rays done and when the doctor says you need surgery to stop the pain. Now you have 2 choices. Live with the pain or have the operation.
The bottom line is you or your insurance is going to have to pay the doctor no matter what you decide to do. Why would you take your time to go see a doctor if you’re not going to take his advice and still end up having the pain in your back?
My advice on dating a married man is go for it with your whole heart but only if you happen to be his wife. However, if you are the other woman in this man’s life you are only begging for trouble by dating him.
What are you hoping for in this relationship? That he’ll leave his wife for you? And if he does he’ll probably lie to you too. And end up leaving you for some one else also. Look at it this way, if the man is cheating on his wife then he is probably lying to her too.
Now, why would you want to date a lair and a cheat with the morals of an alley cat? It really doesn’t matter how rich or cute he is because, he has three strikes against him already.
Okay, maybe you just want the good times without any commitments is what you’re thinking. However, if he happens to talk in his sleep. His wife may hunt you down and shoot you like a dog. Because he is her life and without him she just doesn’t care anymore.
The best advice on dating a married man is don’t do it. Because, it’s too much like grabbing a mad dog by the ears. Eventually it’s going to get away and bite you in the butt as you’re running away screaming.
If you were really his friend, you would try to help him get his marriage back on the right track again and not be the cause of a divorce. The dividends in the long run will pay much better than trying to steal someone Else’s husband.
You can call it the law of Reciprocity, Carma, seed time and harvest, what comes around goes around or any other name you like. But your words and actions have a way of coming back at you like a boomerang.
So, are you sending out blessings or curses with this affair? The choice is really yours but just remember what ever you send out, has a way of multiplying on the return trip back to you.
In my 52 years on this earth I have never seen this type of deal work out for the lasting benefit of the other woman. In fact all I’ve ever seen is early death or years of heartache for them. Not a pretty sight if you ask me.
But you don’t have to listen to me if you think you know better. There could be exceptions to the rule if you want to take your chances. However, you have been warned of what to expect later. And usually it takes years before it catches up with you when you least expect it.
Your chances are better at hitting the lottery than having a lasting relationship with a married man when you’re the other woman.
If you have read this far into this article I would guess you know this is right. But you’re saying to yourself now what do I do? So, let me suggest you dump the guy and go from Mr Wrong to Mr Right.