Thinking About Having an Affair

Thinking About Having an Affair

Every action starts with a thought. So before you even think of having an affair you need to ask yourself a few questions. And answer them honestly.

Is a divorce what I really want?

How would it make me feel if my mate was cheating on me?
Why do I feel the need to go outside of my marriage to get my needs or desires met?
What will happen when my mate finds out about my affair?
Am I just setting myself up for a marriage mess?
Why should my mate even give me a second chance?
How do I plan on regaining my mates trust?

All actions start with a thought, so, why do I dwell on that thought until it turns into an action?
Do I think by saying “it was only a 2 month fling” some how justifies it?
How many lives will be affected by my infidelity?
Is being known as a cheating mate the kind of reputation that I really want?

Will this affair be something that I will be proud of later or regret for the rest of my life?
Most of these are not just simple yes or no answers and the whole point of this is to get you to do a little soul searching because, the decisions you make now will affect the rest of your life.

The late Jim Rohn said if you’re poor and want to be rich you have to change your philosophy. All you have to do is just change the way you look at things because if you don’t change your thinking you will stay poor.

And the only way to change is to learn something new to you. Read books on the subject or you could talk to someone that has acquired wealth and find out how they did it and do the same thing. Or talk to someone that is broke, find out how they did that and then do just the opposite.

The same will work for relationships too. Find a couple with a good marriage to talk to and learn from them or find someone with a broken marriage and do just the opposite. Although that’s not always easy to do these days since everyone is usually busy with their own life.

There is a way to get help with Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness program it’s a relationship renewal program designed as an alternative to marriage counseling. Recent case studies have shown that it’s twice as likely to successfully save and restore a marriage than traditional counseling.

This can be done in the privacy of your own home without having to go to a counselor’s office. You can do this as a couple together or if you have an obstinate spouse you can do this alone and get results also.

I’ve heard some of the testimonies of the people that have tried Mort’s marriage fitness program. Some of them were in the middle of a divorce, had a cheating spouse, were separated or just didn’t talk any more. And they said this was one of the best things they ever did to save their marriage.

If you’re ready to stop thinking about having an affair and get your marriage back on the right track again check out Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness Program before it’s too late. You have nothing to lose with his money back guarantee and your marriage to gain.

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