Frequently Asked Questions

Q: How come when ever I leave a comment on here, and it never shows up on this site?

A: Chances are your comment was so vague you never proved you even read the post you commented on.

Q: I asked you a question in a comment never even expecting it to be published but you didn’t bother to answer?

A: Well, It wasn’t that I didn’t want to. Because I’ve tried to answer lots of them. The problem is 99.9% of the email address’s are fake. And after awhile I figured out I was wasting my time trying to be a nice guy. You are special though for not expecting your comment with you link to show.

The best way to get questions answered is to go to the contact page. Copy and paste my personal e-mail address into your favorite e-mail server. That way I’ll have a better chance of not wasting my time.

Q: Would you exchange an article about relationships for a back link from this site?

A: Possibly, show me what you got! I won’t give you any guarantees though, because I’m A bit picky about what I post now, I’ll admit I need to go through some of my earlier ones and just delete them, in fact some of them I already have.

But, there is an easier way to get a key word rich back link with a do follow tag that’s guaranteed to stay as long as I own this site. All you have to do is just follow the comment policy. Oh, yeah your site can’t be harmful to relationships though like gambling, dating, gaming or porn.

Q: Is this site a custom made site?

A: No, actually it’s a free wordpress platform that I pay hosting at hostgator for less than 10 bucks a month and I’ve added a few other sites on it for no extra cost too.

There’s a link called sandbox at the bottom left hand corner of every page to get this theme for free if you want it.

Q: Did you write all the articles on this site?

A: Not quite, if you read an article that says “hi I’m Mort Fertel” I didn’t write it. The rest I’ll take the blame for.

Q: I use MS Internet Explorer and Google Chrome browsers and have trouble viewing your site. What can I do to fix it?

A: Switch to Fire fox. I love it, it’s free too and this site shows up pretty good on it. Other than that I don’t know what to tell you I’m no computer wizard. I thought I was doing pretty good just getting this site up and running.

Q: I own a site but my bounce rate is about 98% is that average for a site?

A: Beats me buddy. With this site about 10% will stay for 5min to1hr+ at a time. There’s probably a lot of different factors to it. Like: it doesn’t load fast enough or wouldn’t load good enough in their browser or it wasn’t what they were looking for to begin with. Maybe the head line wasn’t interesting enough to hold their interest and draw them into the content. Changing one word can make a difference.

Sometimes when I go to a site and music starts blaring at me and banners are flashing all over the place it ticks me off enough to back out in a heart beat. And I’m sure there are hundreds more reasons for excessive bounce rates. Sometimes just a minor little change can improve that though.

The trick is give your visitors what they want and don’t worry about the rest. You are never going to please everybody at the same time. That’s just life so, concern yourself more with those you want a relationship with and you’ll do just fine.

Q: Those e-books and counseling programs that you promote do they really work?

A: If they didn’t I wouldn’t promote them. I’ll put it this way I’ve never got a testimony from a buyer as of yet and on the other hand haven’t got a complaint or a refund either. Life is all about taking chances but everything I offer is a no risk to you. If it doesn’t make your life better you can have your money back. Which is more than what you would get from a marriage counselor or a lawyer.

In a troubled relationship some people really don’t want to air their dirty laundry to their friends or family because it could come back to haunt them someday. They just want a discrete way to get things back under control as quick as possible.

In the articles I offer some common sense free ways to do just that and usually at the end offer an opportunity to purchase some more help to speed the process up.  If you don’t feel it will help your situation the choice is yours to buy or not to buy. But one thing is for sure, if you’ve never even heard of my recommendation I would be taking away one of your options. And who doesn’t like having options?

They say ignorance is bliss and I’ll just say marriages end every day because of it too. Some solutions are easy fixes and some take time but not knowing them can make for some sleepless nights.

Q: Can I quote a few sentences from here in this post if I provide a backlink to your site?

A: Help yourself, I would appreciate a back link. But, you can take the credit for saying it yourself if you want to. I won’t hunt you down or anything like that either way. If you copy a whole article without rewriting it in your own words it would only be fair to give me a back link. But, even then I’m to lazy to hunt you down.

Q: When I initially commented I clicked the -Notify me when new comments are added- checkbox and now every time a comment is added I get four emails with the same comment. Is there any method you possibly can remove me from that service? Thanks!

A: Oh, that’s not the first time I’ve heard this question. And I would be happy to do that for you if I only knew how. I’m so sorry for the irritation to you. I hate spam and I wouldn’t do that to you on purpose. Hopefully one of my more knowledgeable readers will read this and teach me how to do it.

I’ll Add more questions as I get them.